It's a big deal is it not?
This crazy thing called love? This amazing journey of dilated pupils and arguments and compromise and cuddling and babies and intimacy and careers and in-laws and mortgages and loss and gain... and .... and .... and .....
I should know. I've been there. I'm still there.
I have a soul mate.
I have a shoulder when things turn to poop
I have a hand that high fives when they turn to gold
I was very young when I made this commitment - so young and so very naive.
I remember telling someone once that marriage was for crazies.
I still think it is.
You'd have to be crazy to say "I'm going to hitch my carriage to you ... forEVER"
Good crazy. Fun crazy. Crazy filled with faith.
We have two sets of pals (dear dear pals) who have made their love official this week.
Wowsers am I happy for them.
They are the real deal. I can see lots of awesome, crazy, sexy love ahead.
My man (I get a kick out of saying that) still gives me butterflies, still makes me laugh and sill drives me crazy. We still date, we still argue, we still push and we still cry. We also laugh, cook, whisper, wink and talk.... lots and lots of talking (probably the single most effective glue for any partnership)
So to you four delicious peoples.
I wish you so much more than you can ever dream possible for your future together. And some.
I am in the midst of a marriage that I credit as my best life decision ever.
I know yours will be too.
I know that marriage 'aint for everybody, I know that love is spelt with many different letters and I know that there are numerous sexy souls out there who cannot and will not walk the road of betrothal.
Just for the record I think that's cool too.
So for all of you living your creeds... ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥